I had a friend once that was married to a woman for 10 years that treated him like yours treats you, like a kid. Constantly controlling him to the point he mopped around in a state of depression for years. He couldnt even talk to other people without acting afraid if he took to long. Needless to say one day he walked out the door and never came back. Get this worked out. If shes a controll freak, good luck, if its you neglecting things, then turn it around. A bike ride shouldnt be a big deal at all.