Hey, my husband busts my chops-and my son if I run late. Have you considered hiring a sitter for the kids and then getting your wife out of the house, perhaps? Maybe have her start a hobby of some sort. Hey, if all else fails, get a boyfriend for her. That would work for me!!! But, seriously, don't give up what is your passion. You will regret and will blame her which will do your mariage no good. Marriage counseling maybe as a last resort-like what another person suggested. Good luck, B