Here's her Blog (Copied and pasted from RBR forums)


Judgement (the finished blog)

"If judgement looms under every steeple
If lofty glances from lofty people
Can't see past her scarlet letter
AND WE NEVER EVEN MET HER"
-Casting Crowns, 'Does Anybody Hear Her'

Ok here it is.
This is what I've come up with.

I've been marked with a "scarlet letter". A red letter. Bright words that say, "Jennifer Stark, The killer of Matt Wilhelm."
My body or face hasn't been marked yet. Like, when people see me most of them don't realize that I AM Jennifer Stark, but if they heard my name that's a different story. My name has been marked and it sucks. A lot of people when they hear my name can make the "connection". Some keep their thoughts and feelings to themselves, others don't.
People have judged really fast. All they know about me is what happened September 2nd and 8th. They've never even met me and they've already made up their mind.
This accident has taught me a lot about judging to quickly. A few months before my accident, there was a accident similar to mine down the road from me. A woman was hit, while walking, by a car and killed. When it happened I said "How can someone just hit a person with their car? How could you be so careless?" And then it happened to me and I started to get judged the same way that I judged the man that hit that woman.
I really can't condemn anyone for judging, because I am guilty of it as well. I want to suggest that we all try to not judge so quickly.
Please pray for the family of Matt as they go through the Holidays and please pray for me because I am having a really hard time with this right now. I appreciate all those who have been here for me and who haven't judged me.