I know this sounds odd, but personally, being as compulsive as I am, I would build it up myself. I would order the frame, then get a Record group from 11speed with a high end set of wheels of my choice, then go from there.
For a frame like that, I would accept nothing less than a personal custom build with the best components available. I too love this frame. The lines are second to none. I personally think it's one of the most beautifully elegent carbon frames on the market right now.
But this is just me. As for your personal situation, I honestly wouldn't know what to say, other than to find a high end quality bike shop in your area, with a Pro builder, and have them do a good fit session. Then, order you the bike the way you want it, with the gruppo and wheels of your choice, etc.
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