Dear New Lonesome Member,

I strongly advise you two to seek counseling. Hobbies are hobbies, but once they reach a point of obsession, it can do damage to an otherwise healthy relationship especially if the opposite member is not interested in that hobby (been there), which is perfectly understandable. Your fiance needs to open his eyes and make compromises and tend to your needs. I have seen too many relationships fail for these same reasons. Good luck.

Abby