How do we know this isn't a guy posing as a female troubled by troubles. We don't. The only sure thing we can say is that we all have options; and if we follow what it is we clearly desire, whatever it may be, we will never be wrong at that moment. Girl, guy, whatever, drop the significant (??) other! Better to suffer a little heartache now that to suffer a lifetime of grief on someone who clearly doesn't care to see anything outside of his/her temporary world. Savor every moment, and waste not a second.

Urbanmonk