Thanks for feedback and support. I'm not digging the sexist/racist goings on. I feel the end does not justify the means. In any case i didn't hate the woman (or any other women) just what this particular woman did at that particular time.

I'm sure that for most of the day she is reasonable and generous, that this event was due to carelessness rather than malice. I think her attitude stank, but that was an immature ego defence in the face of my shocking news that she'd nearly crippled/killed/made strawberry jam out of me.

Don't get into racial/gender realted stuff. The most precious item in our arsenal is being right. When we start all that sh*t we're dead wrong.

Or D-lock through the windscreen.