Originally Posted by superdex
Tell him he's an ass and go find another shop.
You should go do some group rides, they're fun and a great way to improve your skills. To eliminate all nervousness from the other riders, show up withOUT the tribars on the bike. You'll be fine
[edit] I just re-looked at your bike. You'll scare most roadies, showing up with a tri bike. It's the handling that is sketchy, especially in a paceline. I'd suggest being very up front that you'll stay out of the drops

I know, I have said this and made it clear...
and cycle could witness that I do NOT drop on them when riding with people, except for one riding partner who's ridden with me for a long time and except for my races or when im alone.
I DO need a new bike withought bars, Im working on that.But I also want to keep my bike.