Thanks everyone for the replies. I guess I have been taught a lesson. I sucessfully used a bigger clicker wrench last year on my crank and BB so I did not think the stem bolts would be that hard. The Craftsman 0 to 250 in-lb wrench has like a 12 in handle on it, which makes it hard to get a feel on something small. Anyway I took the clicker back to Sears but they do not seem to cary a smaller beam type right now. I may get a Park Tool one at some point but I don't like the scales they come with (0 to 60, 0 to 600). I got some more M5 bolts and and just tighten them down with an allen wrench.