Originally Posted by Corsaire
As most of you know I've been commuting off and on to work, about 3 times a week or so; two weeks ago I got involved in a car accident where my VW Jetta got totaled, my mother unfortunately got the worst of it, sustained multiple injuries (fractured spine, pelvis and ribs, among other things) and almost didn't make it, amazingly (miraculously really) enough she's coming back after only two weeks and full recovery is expected. But now, that I'm carLESS by accident (literally) I'm afraid to ride, this fear has made the "best" of me, I don't know what to do, what can I do to recover from this???
Corsaire

Corsaire,
Have you sought help from a mental health professional?
(no this is not a joke) If not, I would strongly recommend doing so. For both you and your mother. A licensed therapist can help you both deal with the issues you are facing. You don't have to face them alone. Reach out for the help you need and get better soon.
Regards,
Bob
EDIT: Here is a site with a listing of Mental Health providers in New Jersey:
http://www.njamha.org/memb_top.htm