You can use grease just about anywhere you would use anti-seize, it helps you torque more accurately, too. I use anti-seize because I already have it. If I didn't, I'd grease.
r/c & l/r: anti seize. If you were using a suicide hub you'd want to loctite the rear cog
bb: anti seize if english, if Italian use loctite on the right (drive) side cup
crank b: anti-seize
c/r b: anti-seize
axle nuts: anti-seize
chain: no grease - oil, buy some specially made chain oil (I like the dry stuff), soak the chain overnight, wipe off the excess, and install.