Your situation sounds like a normal change as a result of your new life style. I remember I used to get harassed by my friend who would try to pick me up from work all the time. "Dude I don't won't to put my bike in the car, I'm riding home....." anyway, I hear you. Riding has a zen effect on me, so it's easy to laugh off any criticism's and flying projectiles. Enjoy the ride!!!!!