I work outside our home, my husband works at home or nearby. He was the stay at home person when the kids were young.

So I drive anywhere from 140 to 260 miles for work, 3 to 5 days per week, and my husband wonders why I get cranky because HE'S too self involved to take something out of the freezer to thaw for dinner... or fill/empty the dishwasher.... or pick his dirty clothes up off the floor.... It's not like I'm asking him to take Salsa to a bike race or something.....