Originally Posted by apclassic9
I work outside our home, my husband works at home or nearby. He was the stay at home person when the kids were young.
So I drive anywhere from 140 to 260 miles for work, 3 to 5 days per week, and my husband wonders why I get cranky because HE'S too self involved to take something out of the freezer to thaw for dinner... or fill/empty the dishwasher.... or pick his dirty clothes up off the floor.... It's not like I'm asking him to take Salsa to a bike race or something.....
I understand but before cycling, I was much more anal about stuff like that than she ever has been and I still am to some degree (except for laundry). That was a problem from the past. Cycling mellowed me out in that regard. She has even commented on that. I have to go back to what the sarcastic guy was saying in the previous post. I may have some fundamental thing going on with myself that I need to work out but this has been going on for 11 years. Cycling is just the most recent incarnation.