tudorowen1: I think you will have hard time to find here a women, because this is not a topic that interest women in this age, and also all the technical talk here
I think you should invest time in finding a sole mate that with time you will enter to the world of cycling. Don't throw it in her face, she can just be afraid and run from it. But bit after bit works well, because as you know, you can fall very fast in love with cycling.
Wish you good luck, and I'm urging you to update us, if you found somebody and on your trips.
Good luck.