As a lawyer who formerly did divorces, married for 25 years to a practicing divorce lawyer,I know the work it takes to make a marriage work and both the heartache and joy that divorce can bring. I also know the loneliness the divorced and widowed older person can suffer, frequently silently. In honor of cgallagh's wife and long marriage, how about pledging to reach out this weekend to an older person and take 'em for a ride, or a walk, or just stop by for a visit.