+1. if i had to give up bikes or my girlfriend, she'd be out the door so fast. fortunately, she's a hardcore commuter/cyclist as well.

dude. get out NOW. i'm serious. the only thing worse than an anti-cyclist girlfriend/fiancee is a beer counter. don't let her browbeat you in this or anything else.

and her ultimatum about callin' off the wedding? there's your out. forget her and take off on a long bike ride. a multi-week tour. i mean ya already got time off for the wedding and honeymoon, right? you're golden.