If I come across a bike that fits your size I'll certainly make contact. Otherwise it is just a matter of hanging in there and looking until you find. It also seems like feast or famine when you are hunting. It feels like once you find one bike that really works, 3 more appear that are perfect and the next thing you know you own 5-6.
I would also start to look at estate sales and yard sales. Once in a while you find good stuff in these sales and have you checked local salvation army stores and any cycling clubs and their web pages?