I'm young at 18, I figure I'll get used to it.
I ride with gloves most of the time, and I'd possibly put the foam inserts under the bartape if I felt too much vibration etc. So in essence, I think I could get used to it. I just don't want too upright of a bike.
I agree though, softness should be some sort of priority, but I think that can be helped with a little customization. I'm not really too into the synapses, though I might try some. Meh.