Originally Posted by hero419
Some family members (In-Laws) have a problem with me taking my son for a ride....and believe I am able to make the best judgment for my son. Now, how the heck do I deal with these people other than the "thanks for your interest and opinion" statement?
I am nice as long as I can be. After the 2nd, 3rd or maybe the 4th. I politely remind them that they are not the parents. Something like "I understand your concern but I am the parent, not you". Persistence receives a warning that the topic is not appropriate. Persistence receives a no visitation (except holidays) until they can apologize and acknowledge my ultimate say in decisions as the parent. It's bad when it is your in-laws, even worse when it is your own parents
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Good Luck. Do what is right for your kid and stick to your guns with your relatives. You'll respect yourself more and so will your in-laws, eventually.