Originally Posted by a2psyklnut
My biggest fear will be the answer, "No!".
I write this with a pain in my heart and a tear in my eye.
My wife and I are divorcing and my 4 year old son is the innocent victim.
I don't see him enough (to my satisfaction anyways. Every day wouldn't be enough).
I fear that another man (her boyfriend) will replace me. I know that no one will replace me as his father, but days like today, I feel more like an Uncle to him than a Father as my wife prohibits any extra time with him.
I envy you.....now I am sad again.
Man I just don't know what to say, other than I can't imagine anything more painful. Hang in there and I sure hope you ex realizes how important a relationship is with your son and his real father,
It makes me appreciate my wife for helping me to have these adventures with our kids. She is always there in the background helping it to happen. For example she will be driving 800 miles to pick us up at the end of our latest adventure. Which reminds me I need to do more for her.
MBD