except for the thing is, the operative word in any such discussion is "community". while it's improbable that **** wouldn't happen anyway, deciding what's best for the community isn't an individual decision, so some big dude who doesn't like people screwing in a car is acting with disrespect for the community and has that to deal with.
it's like society on a smaller scale, where it's an inimately connected group of people acting under self-determination, mutual respect and protection.