Barb,
I'd be surprised if you have the ability to adequately grip the handlebars but couldn't use a std. three speed twist or trigger shift.
Anyway, given what you've told us, another option might be Schwinn's 2008 DX cruiser with it's two speed rear hub shifted by a back pedal bump.
http://www.schwinnbike.com/products/...il.php?id=1023
HTH,
TCS