When I found out my first wife had been carrying on a 9 month affair with a co-worker I had her up against the wall with my hands around her neck giving her these little squeezes. I never saw fear in someone like that and it scared the crap out of me that I was capable of such violence. I figured right then she wasn't worth the effort and we split up. I've since apologized for that and ask forgiveness from her and from my Lord and Savior he did and she didn't. Not the finest moment in my life but blind rage will do that, I'm only glad I got pulled back from the brink and haven't laid a hand on anyone in anger since.