Using ebay to find your ol' steel frame is, in my mind, not that necessary.
If you have any local bike co-ops or similar, you would have a good selection of ol' steel frames with considerably less time money etc spent (I'd think).
Additionally, perhaps there are some BFSSFGers that live nearby and would be willing to help out, lend tools parts advice for the low low price of a sixer o' beers. I have generally found these internet folks friendly, helpful, and welcoming despite any caustic comments to stupid questions.

We're always glad when someone wants to join our Frat.