Have to admit that I could see the stress building up several years ago and did something about it then. This occured about the time of the prostate issues so I took out a lot of responsibility and stopped doing the extra hours that it used to involve.

Can't say I am happy about kids in nappies messing up the years of work I had put in- but not my responsibility any longer and overall- I am happier. And If I do have to sort out the problems- I let everyone know how they messed up and what will happen next time they do it. (Thats the fun part)