Here's what you need to do at this point. Get three identical sheets of paper. Write "Ultegra" on one, "red," on another, and, of course, "force" on the last. Put them in a hat. Hold said hat above eye level of your spouse. Pull a sheet of paper. That is your decision. Stick with it.

If it were I, 'twould be force at this point, though I do love my ultegra.