Honestly -- even if you do light yourself up like the Vegas Strip, they still won't see you. Most drivers really only see cars and other double-tracked vehicles; that's the matrix they've got fixed in their head, and bikes and motorcycles just don't register as other vehicles.

I'm still alive after 40 years on two wheels of one sort or another, and it's mainly because I maintain the attitude that I'm completely invisible, and everyone else on the road is about to do the stupidest thing imaginable in the next split-second. That way when I get something better than that, it's gravy.