I'm sorry if you see my attempts at removing terms like childish, phobic, stupid etc from the dialogue among those who wish to be taken seriously as advocates be it on line or in person as my means of claiming to be an arbiter of what is or isn't an "appropriate tone" then I have once again miscommunicated my intentions.

Although the "tone" of your statement does not bother me I would, however, take issue with it as a fact.

I might even agree with this statement:

that some bike lanes bring far more harm to cyclists than benefits...

I would strongly disagree with this statement:

that all bike lanes bring far more harm to cyclists than benefits...

If you wish to see everything in as simplistic a form as possible, everything as black and white then I, and others, will probably continue to call you on it.