no luck, the first place tightened it alot more but the bars still moved when i land a bunny hop
the second place, the guy took off the bars, cleaned them and the stem, tightened them in the right pattern very slowly and carefully but the bars still moved. Since i dont have $50 to spend on a new stem, i think im gonna try to contact danscomp and see if they will send me new bars and a stem and i send them my old ones, or see what they can do.
once i get new stuff, im just gonna let the bike place install them so i dont f... them up, lol

also, do you guys think that its the bars and the stem thats defeacted? or just the stem