I had real problems with numbness and pain but when it passed (after a ride), like Chewa, I was rewarded. I tried for a long time to adjust my bike to fit but nothing worked, neither did a number of different and imaginative saddles.
In the end, I switched to recumbents. I'm especially pleased that I did, riding bents is (for me) MUCH more enjoyable and only partly due to the extreme comfort.
Impotency I ain't buyin, pain and numbness is very real, as most of you know.
Spring is here! Only 2 feet of snow left in the yard but more importantly...the streets are clear! Yippee!