I don't think that the recognition that one is getting old
For me there is a great difference between "getting old" and "being old."
We are all "getting old" - even a newborn. None of us can fail to recognize that.
"Being old" is a state of mind that I do not entertain.
And, everything else being equal, I will live 7.5 years longer with my attitude then you will:
http://www.globalaging.org/health/us/positive.htm
But, I think this will never be resolved.
So, have a great day!