I think you're in the wrong part of the state! lol. I"m having the same problem; trying to find a compatible guy that's into cycling like I am. Most in my age range are already married in my town. I pass plenty on fellas on the road, and I usually put in about 100 miles on the weekend, but that's a 3 second wave and smile then....gone. Maybe I just need to get faster? Or practice my TT 180 turn??