I think you missed my point. If you are confident in yourself you don't look down on other people. "You just are" would be one way to put it. Its similar to the "if they have nothing to hide they won't lie" concept. If you are looking down on other people the truth is you aren't a winner. You are some nerd or whatever derogatory term you want to attach who is a bad word / negative term.

edit: I should not have used the word "most" in my previous post. I should have used the term "a lot" in its place.