Originally Posted by BenyBen
He would've just driven by, and been out of your lives, You laugh it off, and you're the wiser. Now you have a broken wheel, and some bureaucracy to take care of. The driver got an outing for his frustration and probably not a scratch on his bumper. Sure it was criminal and stupid of him to do this, and it can't be excused, but it could've all been avoided. Vengence draws vengence!
I agree with your read on this. The thing is, I really never was especially worked up about this. Certainly not as worked up as the driver. I was only following my girlfriend in a fight of her choosing -- I'm definitely more easy-going about bad drivers than she is. My only point is, if it were anything other than a huge inconvenience to somehow send a message to this fellow that it's a pretty socially unacceptable thing to run people over, then I'd think it were worth it.
I get the feeling that others who've said I deserve what I got are the kind of cyclists who suffer from a kind of Stockholm syndrome: they have come to identify more strongly with the oppressors, the motorists. Well, I for one refuse to internalize the mind-set promoted by the dominant mode of transportation. Just because cars are heavy objects in which their owners invest way too much emotional capital doesn't mean they can't be spat upon. Just because bikes take up less space doesn't mean they can be shat upon.