I have to add my two cents in on this one.
I do not see this quote as bowing to being "politically correct" or creating victims...One can be honest, assertive, own their side of the street, not "pus*y foot" around a conflict while creating a victim. It is simply called: communication.

Yes, a lot of people lack this skill which is what perpetuates conflict and judgement. Everyday on my job I tell people what they do not want to hear and have them take responsibility for their own behaviors. A large part of this is also outlining how our behavior impacts those around us in both positive and negative ways.

As for law...law is societies way of monitoring behavior "for the greater good" of that society...unfortunately, using this system to blame others for our poor judgement has gotten out of hand in our society.

I agree with Little Big Man. Some will get pi**ed w/honest feedback but honesty can be shelled out in such a way that keeps the door open for further communication. Even if the door is to a class on communication skills!

stella