Wow guys, thank you so much for the reccomendations!
I hadn't thought about the 2009 Forester, we'll have to check that out along with the other idea's brought up. I don't know why, but I keep pushing against the C-RV and RAV4 even though I know they're good cars.
We'll start test driving these suggestions and see what works for us. Again, thanks again for all the great input.