That might have been part of the problem after we got back together after our separation, I didn't set around and wait to see what she wanted to do.
I lost 60 pounds during the separation, tried eating healthier, and she just sat around reading her book, but that was only part of it, I didn't do the best I could being a husband but I'm working on that now.
Her best friend passed away about 2 months after we got back together & that didn't help either because she just wanted to set at home & I was out riding my bike with new friends.