my wife left me in 1996 and she should have we got back together in 1997.I left heri n 2000 and I should have after 3 months we got back together.I left her again in 2006 and I should have got back together in 2007.first two times I sat around and felt sorry for myself the last time I went on with my life and it wasn't bad almost didn't go back .A good friend told me I should take her back because I had screwed up one woman and didn't need to go screw up another one lol.