OH yea, I have 4 kids and a wife too. Half of the kids are now in college far away and the two youngest are high school age. I never found anyone who would buy the kids if I did not supply food. try selling the wife, course they are kinda expesive to get rid of too. Or you could do like I did and just ride it out, like a hurricaine. Drink a lot, work a lot and just enjoy it, someday you will miss it.