I decided not to ride today & work on the inside of the Duplex. One of the many things me & the wife disagree about was how clean the house should be. In my younger days I could care less but now that I'm getting older I like it cleaner then she did. When we got back together after our 7 month separation I was doing all the cleaning, cooking, and most of the laundry.
Like I said her best friend passed away about 3 months after we got back together & I really feel that had a lot to do with it as well because she didn't feel like doing anything & now I'm learning & understanding why it affects people but she never shared any of her feelings with me.
When she moved out she left a miss & it just helped me see the true person she had become.
So today I painted a wall in the dining room that was a really light pink. I was told that is not a color you would want in a bachelor pad. I was also told I needed glass drinking glasses, I had always used plastic so I had bought a set of glass drinking glasses but they just weren't big enough so today I bought four 20oz. glasses to go with the set so I'm set there.
I have three sisters, ride with some great gals, & work with some that keep me motivated so I'm learning what to do & what not to do. Now will it help I don't know, I am a little thick headed.
Everyone tells me I'll be fine, they tell me I'll be better off, & I also feel that I'll be better off as well but it sure is hard going threw this. I wished I could just come out the other end but then I would miss all the lessons that come with a divorce so I might as well try & be positive & learn as much as I can.