Gotcha. In that case, I'll just point to what I wrote above. That's me personally. No pics since I don't usually ride with a mirror and besides, I still say it's about you. What's comfortable for me may not be for you. It sounds like you have some idea of what you want to change, so maybe you shoudl give that a shot. Also, Sheldon has an article on where poor fit can make your hurt and that may be useful to track down the right thing for you in this case.

http://www.sheldonbrown.com/pain.html

Maybe YOU should send pictures to US and people can see if there's anything obviously wrong with your position.