Originally Posted by
tanguy frame
Our relationship is one of mutual respect, so please don't tell me to ignore her or pretend her feelings aren't important.
Crap, I guess that means lying is out too?
In all seriousness, the only thing that could work is getting her to tail you sometime, and see how bright you are. Maybe have you roll in front of her at an intersection. If you're as bright as you claim, she should see you fine and might feel better about things.