Originally Posted by
chipcom
Get into your commuting get-up one evening and go out for a short ride, letting her follow you in her car. Once she sees how visible you are, you'll have a better chance of rational discussion...and also might get some feedback concerning where you can improve your visibility.
My wife caught me splitting lanes and generally acting like a messenger... the discussion was not pleasant. This was while she was a few months along... if you get my drift.