I voted HTFU.
I'd be willing to bet that if one of those guys came on your regular ride that after his first time he'd probably find something to complain about too.
I'm pretty sure there's some stuff on our club ride that would make a first timer uncomfortable. Ride it a few more times and get to know the regulars and how they ride. It'll probably not be as bad as you remember that first time.
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John
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