Hey Trevor,
The wife and I haven't been in SOCAL long, maybe just a year and a half. I moved to cycling about 9 months ago, the wife 3 months and we are definitely loving it.
That being said, I think you may want to assess why you're not riding (as cold weather doesn't seem to be it), not comfortable perhaps? Roads that make you feel nervous? Some health reason holding you back? Maybe even overdoing it.
Once you can identify why you don't "feel" like riding then you can address the problem then see what your next best step is.