Originally Posted by H23
Perhaps "me or the bike?" is the wrong question altogether? I mean, shouldn't one persue interests besides work and the relationship?
I always try to think of it as a triangle: work, family/relationship, and hobbies. Focusing on one of them, or neglecting one of them for extended periods of time always makes for an unhappy period of life. The key is to find a balance by devoting enough time to all three.