Ok I wear bike shorts almost everyday... I ride everyday for 15 - 20 miles plus training. I shave my legs, I train, I wear jerseys...
People will look, expecially on the way to a ride, that is fine. Usually it is when I am in normal shorts that I get questions about my legs... no hair

When I am biking people seem to just ignore me as one of those cyclists... different reaction if I am on a hybrid riding to the store...
I chafe when it is hot... I am not big or heavy... not that that I could not lose a little weight. I have abnormal feet posistion (twisted slightly) and that causes rubbing. I ride all day at work and I wear bike shorts under my uniform... it is that important. I would not even think about riding with out them... even on the trainer...
Plus I think I look good and it annoys my parents... what could be better... if shaving does not annoy them enough.