To solve
Number 2 you must first solve
Number 3. Once that is solved, you take the stem all the way out and use a headset wrench (or a big wrench from your dad's tool chest) to take off the headset nuts and then slide that refelctor thingy off.
Here is what a headset wrench looks like:
http://www.mec.ca/Products/product_d...=1233934534193
Sekines can be pretty decent bikes, I found one in a scrap yard and gave it to a friend and he loves it.