Phil, my friend. Ride for yourself. I've done it for 37 years, and I've seen all kinds.

I'm really impressed by a person who is secure enough in themselves to post statements that inform us that they are sure they can ride better than or can beat almost anyone else in the forum. (Yeah, right.) Even the most seemingly secure have their weaknesses.

As for those who say you will find all kinds of people in every walk of life or group of people. What can I add, they are right.

Set your own goals. As long as you honestly do your very best to meet those goals, you are a success and just as good as those who have the need to be better than others. Do your best for you, and no-one else and you are a success and are the best in the only circle of people who really matters, yourself.

One final word. I have learned that to be happy and to get through situations such as you have mentioned is to expect these things to be, and to never be surprised by anything anyone does or says. I know that doesn't make it right, but to except these things as reality is like taking a spoon full of sugar to make the medicine go down easier.

Again, ride for yourself.